my profile interpretation:

  • By default, use he/him.
  • If we are close enough (as determined by ME), I believe pronouns stop meaning that much to me, and therefore you have my blessing to use either one of he/him, she/her, or they/them as you feel like.
    • I still find it hard to get used to the new-ish pronouns like ze which is confusing to me (at best), so I ask you NOT to use it.
    • Basic rule of thumb is, if you have to ask yourself or me if we are close enough, you are not.


Korean language does not make use of pronouns that much when it comes to referring human (our names are generally short enough that does not need any compression) so I still feel a bit weird when using it.

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